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How to Earn an Overseas Income W/out Working Abroa: 12 Things Happy People Do DifferentlyAugust 30th, ...

How to Earn an Overseas Income W/out Working Abroa: 12 Things Happy People Do DifferentlyAugust 30th, ...: 12 Things Happy People Do Differently August 30th, 2011 @12:00 AM By: Jacob Sokol “I’d always believed that a life of quali...

12 Things Happy People Do Differently

August 30th, 2011 @12:00 AM By: Jacob Sokol 

“I’d always believed that a life of quality, enjoyment, and wisdom were my human birthright and would be automatically bestowed upon me as time passed.  I never suspected that I would have to learn how to live - that there were specific disciplines and ways of seeing the world I had to master before I could awaken to a simple, happy, uncomplicated life.”
-Dan Millman

Studies conducted by positivity psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky point to 12 things happy people do differently to increase their levels of happiness.  These are things that we can start doing today to feel the effects of more happiness in our lives.  (Check out her book The How of Happiness.)

I want to honor and discuss each of these 12 points, because no matter what part of life’s path we’re currently traveling on, these ‘happiness habits’ will always be applicable.

1. Express gratitude. – When you appreciate what you have, what you have appreciates in value.  Kinda cool right?  So basically, being grateful for the goodness that is already evident in your life will bring you a deeper sense of happiness.  And that’s without having to go out and buy anything.  It makes sense.  We’re gonna have a hard time ever being happy if we aren’t thankful for what we already have.
2. Cultivate optimism. – Winners have the ability to manufacture their own optimism.  No matter what the situation, the successful diva is the chick who will always find a way to put an optimistic spin on it.  She knows failure only as an opportunity to grow and learn a new lesson from life.  People who think optimistically see the world as a place packed with endless opportunities, especially in trying times.
3. Avoid over-thinking and social comparison. – Comparing yourself to someone else can be poisonous.  If we’re somehow ‘better’ than the person that we’re comparing ourselves to, it gives us an unhealthy sense of  superiority.  Our ego inflates – KABOOM – our inner Kanye West comes out!  If we’re ‘worse’ than the person that we’re comparing ourselves to, we usually discredit the hard work that we’ve done and dismiss all the progress that we’ve made.  What I’ve found is that the majority of the time this type of social comparison doesn’t stem from a healthy place.  If you feel called to compare yourself to something, compare yourself to an earlier version of yourself.
4. Practice acts of kindness. – Performing an act of kindness releases serotonin in your brain.  (Serotonin is a substance that has TREMENDOUS health benefits, including making us feel more blissful.)  Selflessly helping someone is a super powerful way to feel good inside.  What’s even cooler about this kindness kick is that not only will you feel better, but so will people watching the act of kindness.  How extraordinary is that?  Bystanders will be blessed with a release of serotonin just by watching what’s going on.  A side note is that the job of most anti-depressants is to release more serotonin.  Move over Pfizer, kindness is kicking ass and taking names.
5. Nurture social relationships. – The happiest people on the planet are the ones who have deep, meaningful relationships.  Did you know studies show that people’s mortality rates are DOUBLED when they’re lonely?  WHOA!  There’s a warm fuzzy feeling that comes from having an active circle of good friends who you can share your experiences with.  We feel connected and a part of something more meaningful than our lonesome existence.
6. Develop strategies for coping. – How you respond to the ‘craptastic’ moments is what shapes your character.  Sometimes crap happens – it’s inevitable.  Forrest Gump knows the deal.  It can be hard to come up with creative solutions in the moment when manure is making its way up toward the fan.  It helps to have healthy strategies for coping pre-rehearsed, on-call, and in your arsenal at your disposal.
7. Learn to forgive. – Harboring feelings of hatred is horrible for your well-being.  You see, your mind doesn’t know the difference between past and present emotion.  When you ‘hate’ someone, and you’re continuously thinking about it, those negative emotions are eating away at your immune system.  You put yourself in a state of suckerism (technical term) and it stays with you throughout your day.
8. Increase flow experiences. – Flow is a state in which it feels like time stands still.  It’s when you’re so focused on what you’re doing that you become one with the task.  Action and awareness are merged.  You’re not hungry, sleepy, or emotional.  You’re just completely engaged in the activity that you’re doing.  Nothing is distracting you or competing for your focus.
9. Savor life’s joys. – Deep happiness cannot exist without slowing down to enjoy the joy.  It’s easy in a world of wild stimuli and omnipresent movement to forget to embrace life’s enjoyable experiences.  When we neglect to appreciate, we rob the moment of its magic.  It’s the simple things in life that can be the most rewarding if we remember to fully experience them.
10. Commit to your goals. – Being wholeheartedly dedicated to doing something comes fully-equipped with an ineffable force.  Magical things start happening when we commit ourselves to doing whatever it takes to get somewhere.  When you’re fully committed to doing something, you have no choice but to do that thing.  Counter-intuitively, having no option – where you can’t change your mind – subconsciously makes humans happier because they know part of their purpose.
11. Practice spirituality. – When we practice spirituality or religion, we recognize that life is bigger than us.  We surrender the silly idea that we are the mightiest thing ever.  It enables us to connect to the source of all creation and embrace a connectedness with everything that exists.  Some of the most accomplished people I know feel that they’re here doing work they’re “called to do.”
12. Take care of your body. – Taking care of your body is crucial to being the happiest person you can be.  If you don’t have your physical energy in good shape, then your mental energy (your focus), your emotional energy (your feelings), and your spiritual energy (your purpose) will all be negatively affected.  Did you know that studies conducted on people who were clinically depressed showed that consistent exercise raises happiness levels just as much as Zoloft?  Not only that, but here’s the double whammy… Six months later, the people who participated in exercise were less likely to relapse because they had a higher sense of self-accomplishment and self-worth.

Jacob Sokol is committed to living an extraordinary life.  Today he released “Living on Purpose – An Uncommon Guide to Finding, Living, and Rocking Your Life’s Purpose.”  He also loves his mom dearly.

Photo by: Aurelio Asiain

How to Earn an Overseas Income W/out Working Abroad

by Paolo Gutierrez

To work abroad as an OFW (overseas Filipino worker) is the dream of many Filipinos. Although there are already close to 12 million Filipinos working overseas, about a million more leave the Philippines every year to work in some 200 countries around the world. In fact, according to some reports, at any one time, more than 10% of the Philippines' total population are hard at work - abroad.

Why? Well, the primary reason is money. Given the sluggish state of the Philippine economy, there are not just enough jobs at home. And the few that are available do not pay enough to enable the poor worker to support a family of four, let alone the extended families that most of us Filipinos have. A public school teacher with more than five years' experience, for instance, is paid an average of Php15,000 a month or Php180,000 (US$4,000) a year. In comparison, a school in Maryland, USA was reported just a few years back as offering Filipino teachers a starting annual salary of $43,500. This is equivalent to over P2.0 million a year - more than 10 times bigger than what a teacher can get at home!

Unfortunately, such high-paying overseas jobs are also becoming fewer. Even in the Middle East, where the hiring of Filipino labor really began in earnest in the 1970s, salaries have plummeted sharply. The global recession is one big reason for the decline; growing competition is another. Workers from other Third World countries may not be as skilled as their Filipino counterparts, but their willingness to work abroad for much lower wages has driven salary scales downward quite sharply.

However, the lower wages nothwithstanding, Filipinos continue to look for work abroad. Working as an OFW still remains a cherished Pinoy dream. We just have to be a little more careful and discriminating when it comes to offers for work abroad - especially after hearing the many horror stories about OFWs getting their pay withheld and their travel documents confiscated or hidden. Right?

Right, but then again, perhaps, it's time for us Filipinos to consider what could be an even wiser - and definitely safer - option. Take the case of Abe Olandres who, as a professional blogger, is earning $5,000 a month. Or J. Angelo Racoma, an economist by training but who now writes technical blogs for a living and who says other Filipinos can do the same to earn anywhere from $300 to $6,000 monthly. They are just two of the growing number of Pinoys who, by using the Internet, are now earning OFW-style salaries without having to work abroad! And blogging is but one option you can go into like being a part of the FanBox Community where you can earn everyday. Do you know that I am now a FanBox addict? and you can try it, too. What is FanBox? There are other work at home jobs like freelance outsourcing and affiliate marketing (which has turned many work at home practitioners into multimillionaires around the world) that us Pinoys should definitely get into!

Paolo Gutierrez, a work at home professional with over five years experience, is inviting his Filipino readers to look for their ideal work at home job at Work At Home Jobs - Philippines. To Pinoys dreaming of a better life, visit the site and subscribe to the newsletter today!